The Little Things

There are certain milestones that gets nearly every parent excited. Like this one:

I could watch that video all day long.  That sweet voice and I love how he puts his hands over his face when I show my excitement.  Even better, when I do replay it (over and over and over) he says, “mama”

But sometimes, the little things mean just as much.  Like this:

truckThere is so much in this picture that makes me proud of Owen.

  • Look at the way he’s sitting.  Stretching across those belly scars that prevented him from sitting independently before he was 21 months old.
  • He’s using the toy appropriately.  It’s not in his mouth.  He’s not solely focused on the buttons that make noises and lights flash.  He’s pushing the truck forward, like a real truck would drive forward.
  • Speaking of those buttons, that he does occasionally push.  They are tiny.  To make them work, Owen has to point one isolated finger to softly jab the buttons.  You can’t see it in this picture, but that is some beautiful fine motor achievement, Little Boy!
  • He’s playing independently.  I did not pull the toy out and initiate the play or show him how to use a truck.  Owen found the truck and started playing by himself and decided for himself what the appropriate use of the truck was.
  • When I did sit down to take this sweet picture, Owen pushed the truck towards me.  He was initiating that I play with him.  He can play alone, which is important for his independence, however, he also has social desires to play with someone else when there is the opportunity.

I will watch the “mama” video 100 times with a huge, proud smile on my face, and I have the same pride when I see this picture of a little boy playing with his truck.  These, seemingly, small milestones, are just as important because they are the foundation of the next big thing to come.

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