It’s not every day that I get to look at the day and think I just created a memory and gave an important lesson…for Kellen AND me. Yesterday the stars aligned perfectly for that type of day.
Kellen, Owen and I were sitting on the screen porch watching the rain outside. Owen was in my lap and I put him down and said, “Owen, it’s Kellen’s turn for snuggles with Mommy.” Kellen climbed in my lap with a kiss on my cheek and we had this conversation.
Kellen: The rain makes me sad
Me: Why does the rain make you sad?
Kellen: Everything is dark and it’s too wet to play outside.
Me: Well, what about if we put on rain boots and rain coats and go play in the rain? Would you like to see if can make the rain fun?
Do you know what we discovered? The rain can be a lot of fun, if you let it be.
The day aligned perfectly because Kyle was home from work and could watch Owen. By the end of the summer, maybe he’ll be walking and able to enjoy some splashing in the rain on his own. Playing through the rain is a life lesson I definitely want him to know.
These pictures remind me of one of my favorite quotes that is so relevant when you’re in the throes of whatever life is handing out.
Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass…It’s about learning to dance in the rain.
Vivian was a smart woman, but she must not have had little boys…here’s my little boy version of her quote.